Is it really true that we women don’t know the difference between w2hat we want and need or is it that the men just don’t get it? And are we such difficult creatures to understand. ? Do we have to put in point blank what we feel, want and need? What I’m writing is for all those men out there. I’m not…I repeat I’m not pointing to only one person but to all MEN.

Question: What do we woman what?
Answer:
• Someone to make us feel wanted.
• Someone who knows what we are worth
• Someone who would look over our flaws
• Someone who could read our feelings just by the look on our faces. I’m not talking about reading our minds. If you guys could do that…it would freak you out.
• Someone who would listen to us even when you don’t want to listen. Mind you, listen and SHOW that you’re listening. Acknowledge her that you are listening. And react to the whatever she’s telling you.
• Someone who would lead a shoulder to cry on. (Even if you are just her friend. if like her and want to win her heart, do just that.)

Question: what do we woman need?
• A hug when things start to go bad.
• Sweet words of nothings whispered into our ears such as I love you at a random time with her not expecting it.
• Complements. Complement if she looks good even if she looks bad. It would put her smile to her face. (If she has a black face on..Then think twice. If she a soft hearted girl like me then with all means say it. )
• Surprises. Women love surprises. So try not to ask if it’s not necessary. (but if you know her well enough then why the hell are you asking!)
• Someone to understand us and not put us in a fix where we have to choose. That would only spell disaster.
• Someone who to put a smile on our faces with the most simplest of things, a text message. Or if you are out with us get a rose. That would really put a smile on our faces after a long rough day at work/school.

Question: What we women don’t want or need
Answer:
• We don’t need anything expensive. (if the girl you have or running after has Paris Hilton material then something expensive would get her attention) but I’m writing on behalf of simple women like me.
• Smart mouths. Sometimes words can be a weapon of mass destruction in a relationship. It cuts worse than a knife.
• Cheap and cheesy pick up lines.
• Men who only talk about themselves and never wants to listen to what we want to say or get off her chest.
• Trying to control us and our life. NOW that is a NO! NO! We women want to be independent. So if we set a goal that you think we can’t reach, just support us for god sack. Let us know that someone is always there for support and that we not alone.
• Never, never change us for your comfort. We really hate that.
• And we don’t like to be the one giving in all the time. Stop taking and start giving will ya.

Well that’s all I can say. If anyone wants to comment about this entry. Feel free to comment on my tag bored…don’t have to leave your name if you don’t want to. Even if you are a guy.